How to Make Work-Life Balance Work
“If you don’t design your life, someone else will design it for you.” ~ Nigel Marsh
I’ve made some mistakes since I graduated college. One of the biggest was letting a well-meaning corporation design my life for me. I gave it permission. I own the mistake. Thankfully, I’ve learned the painful lesson.
Nigel Marsh, best-selling author and performance coach, gets at what he calls the “nub” of this issue as he discusses making work-life balance work. This funny Aussie does so in a humorous and spot-on video below. (You may want to watch it twice as you can’t help but laugh while you learn.)
If you are in corporate America or even if you own your own business, and you’re stressed-out and overwhelmed by the demands of the workplace, trying to figure out how to put the spark back in your marriage, have more meaningful moments with your kids and get to your exercise club, while you practice your daily spiritual rituals, this video is worth the 13 minutes it takes to view.
Here’s what I’ve learned since my time playing victim by allowing others to determine my life: Know what’s important to you. Design your life. Have boundaries, and get started.
Nigel says, start small. It takes a minor 3mm change in your swing to change the trajectory and placement of a golf ball. The same goes for your life.
What 3mm change can you make to bring balance into your day?
Perhaps you put the smart phone away as you dine with your family, ask your kid about the favorite part of his day, schedule and plan the details of a date with your spouse, mark your calendar for a lunch appointment with yourself to exercise or read your favorite novel.
Bottom line: Don’t put off everything when you can do something. And never leave your life in the hands of even a well-meaning corporation.
It’s neither their expertise nor job to know and do what’s best for you.
That’s an ‘inside’ job. Always has been. Always will be.
Watch this spot-on video now. Then let me know what you do to make work-life balance work for you.
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Rita – These last few weeks you have re-inspired me! I hope after my vacation with my kids we can reconnect to help “change society” Thanks